Irrevocable Trust & Caregiver Secretly Becoming Spouse

Certified as an elder law attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation under authorization of the Pennsylvania Supreme Court

Certified as an elder law attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation under authorization of the Pennsylvania Supreme Court

When children are already grieving the death of a parent, what a nightmare to learn that a caregiver has secretly become the parent’s spouse and stands to inherit a large portion of the estate.

A recent Wall Street Journal article explored this problem.

As the article explains, state laws may not provide adequate relief. So what can you do?

I agree with one proactive approach discussed in the article — protect assets ahead of time with an irrevocable trust. Shielding assets from scam artists is just one of the ways a properly drafted irrevocable trust can preserve an estate.

I take issue, though, with the usefulness of the article’s other suggested defense — a durable power of attorney. While I agree that every adult should have a durable POA, the problem is that the person who signed it can easily revoke it. A durable POA wouldn’t pose much of a barrier to a scammer who had the persuasive skills to talk the victim into getting married.


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